Keep Tongue and Words Sweet

“Think twice before you speak, because your words and influence will plant the seed of either success or failure in the mind of another.”

– Napolean Hill

I have heard that words are the most powerful alarming weapon in the world. And the most dangerous is how you use them and the way you talk.

wordsSometimes when we use piercing words politely, it touch the hearts. And sometimes when we use soft words but in harsh language it jabs. Literally it cuts the heart into two pieces.

Let me tell you one sweet story.

There was once a wise sage who wandered the countryside. One day, as he passed near a village, he was approached by a woman who told him of a sick child. She beseeched him to help this child.

So the sage came to the village and a crowd gathered around him, for such a man was a rare sight. One woman brought the sick child to him and he said a prayer over her.

Do you really think your prayer will help her, when medicines has failed?” yelled a man from the crowd.

You know nothing of such things! You are a stupid fool!” said the sage to the man.

The man became very angry with these words and his face grew hot and red. He was about to say something, or perhaps strike out, when the sage walked over to him and said: “If one word has such power as to make you so angry and hot, may not another have the power to heal?

Kind-WordsAnd thus, the sage healed two people that day.

Moral of the Story is clear. Words make the difference and especially how wisely and politely you use them.

“Better than a thousand hollow words, is one word that brings peace.”

Buddha

Most of the time, unintentionally and unknowingly we use stupid words which jabs the listener and hurts their feelings. So we should always use words wisely and most importantly politely.

words-quotes-wordsWhen you are in anger or not in good mood, better do not utter a single word if you really give importance to your relationships.

Keep your tongue and words sweet.

Keep Smiling.. 🙂

Story Credit: Unknown

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25 Life Lessons Learned by Me

life lessons

  1. Relationships matter the most, so preserve them.
  2. Don’t speak to any when you are in anger.
  3. Think Twice. Thrice. Hundred times before criticizing anyone.
  4. Time has the power to heal anything.
  5. Always be Polite. Calm. Maintain your vibrations of your mind.
  6. Always try to control your Heart and Mind rhythms. If can’t be controlled, can be dangerous for you.
  7. Love from your heart but not from your mind. Think from your mind not from your heart. Most of the time, we mix them.
  8. Live in present moment even in pressurized state of mind.
  9. The best way to being motivated is – Motivate others.
  10. Critics are wonderful creatures. Learn from them.
  11. Take Risks. I believe, take more risks when you feel luck is on your side.
  12. Smile is a wonderful gift. Let it spread like a virus.
  13. Feeling a bit low? Listen to motivational music. It will rejuvenate you.
  14. Believe in God. When feeling tensed, pass it on to God. They are always there for you.
  15. Laugh loud with friends and behave childish with your loved ones.
  16. Never argue with any one. It’s better to lose arguments most of the time.
  17. Never discuss anyone’s: Religion, Relationships and Diseases
  18. Always be positive and behave positively.
  19. Don’t judge people by their first impressions.
  20. Never regret.
  21. Be a Day dreamer.
  22. Exercise daily. It rejuvenate your confidence as well as body.
  23. Never underestimate yourself as you are the beautiful gift to someone.
  24. Always give more and expect nothing.
  25. Always use words: Please, Thank you and Sorry.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Thanks,

Aviral

4Ps can change your life

Everyday we learn something, whether it is about our Career, Relationships or Life. Whatever we learn and absorb in our mind, it makes us grow which reflects on our family. As our family grows, our neighborhood flourishes. Flourishing of our neighborhood leads to cultivation of society. Further, our state grows and country grows. Hence, our world blossoms. Growth always start from a micro level and goes to macro level.

4PsWe human beings are the micro level and World is macro.

To be a successful person, we have to be a better personality, a better person by heart, by attitude which reflects in our maturity.

It is very simple to say, “I am a matured person..”

Now the question is, if you really are a “MATURED” person then why our society, our country and our world isn’t flourishing as it should be?

Why we see hatred and poverty in our society?

Why we get disheartened? Why we are not growing?

Why we do not have patience, why we get so excited and outburst when some one tries to provoke us?

Why our egos come across in our relationships?

There could be numerous questions which can question our humanity.

These are very basic questions which needs to be answered and if you have these Ps then my dear friend you are matured enough. You can actually change the neighborhood, society, country and the whole world.

4Ps can change your life….

  1. Passion
  2. Perseverance
  3. Patience
  4. Politeness

Many entrepreneurs and leaders always said, ‘Follow your Passion’. Go for it which you are passionate about. Do what you love.

“Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you.”

Oprah Winfrey

But just doing for sake isn’t enough. You have to do it heartily and it needs hard work, courage, dedication, determination. It needs Perseverance because you have to pass through many challenges, many tests which will examine your capabilities.

Life is like a roller coaster. Some time you will enjoy your ride and some time you will not. For such down moments, you need to have Patience. Just give time. You have to be very calm in tough situations. You simply can not go mad and outburst on someone in frustration. Just be like river – silence, serene and patience.

“The two hardest tests on the spiritual road are the patience to wait for the right moment and the courage not to be disappointed with what we encounter.”

Paulo Coelho

Yelling or shouting in frustration is very simple and easy to ease your tension but it surely going to affect your relationships adversely. No just wait… not affect, rather it will actually ruin and break your relations down.

“Spoken words never come back just like an arrow never comes back to bow.”

Relationship are like flowers, it has to be handled with care, with politeness. Being polite actually reflects our humanity.

Politeness can do wonders in our relationships, in our working culture.

“Ceremonies are different in every country, but true politeness is everywhere the same.”

Oliver Goldsmith

your-life-will-changeDevelop these 4Ps and transform your life.

Keep Smiling.. 🙂

Thanks,

Aviral

I am Colour-blind. Are you?

Sometimes I feel that my eyes aren’t working properly. I feel something suspicious with my eye’s retina.

Am I color-blind?

Color of happinessLet’s see.

Today’s life has become fast and in this fast life, we actually have forgotten most of the things.

We have forgotten our Family.

We have forgotten our Smile.

We have forgotten our Friends.

My dear friends, we have forgotten our life.

We have lost ourselves in the fast running crowd, a denser crowd. Where ever my eyes scan, I just see people running after everything. A big crowd running after one goal.

We are running after Money.

We are running after our Career.

We are running after Happiness. (Literally many of my friends have actually confessed me.)

We are running after our personal goals and to achieve them we can go to any extent.

Result – Stampede!!

We have actually become selfish and day by day we are becoming more egocentric. Unfortunately, we achieve none of them. It’s like running after a butterfly. The more you try to catch her, farther it goes.

When we couldn’t achieve any of our dreams, frustration starts building. We become intolerant, skeptical and seem suspicious. Our mood becomes irritating. We can’t see other’s happiness. It’s a human tendency.

We are living in the life of grievances. We are surrounded by negative vibrations and negative people.

Fortunately, we can change this.

Yes we can change everything. We can crush the negativity.

We can change this irritating atmosphere. We can change our nearby surroundings. We can literally convert this resentment into affection, happiness and love.

How?

Smile a lot. Start your conversation with simple and genuine praise and compliments. Always talk from your heart. Be an epicenter of love. Carry positive vibrations along with you. Make people laugh.

Always be polite. Don’t get excited to something as they are temporary.

“For every minute you remain angry, you give up sixty

 

seconds of peace of mind.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Your laugh should be so energetic that it can kill the negative vibrations across your surroundings.

“Smile is a Contagious. The more you widen your lips, the more you soften others hearts.”

I always see happiness everywhere. My eyes stuck at smiling faces and those who aren’t smiling, start smiling because of my positive vibrations.

“Sometimes I feel that am color-blind as I just see colors of happiness as I can’t see grievances anymore.”

Let your eyes be color blind. They are beautiful part of your body and they are there to see colorful world, a smiling world. Not the grievances.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Thanks,

Aviral

Achieve Goals like River

Life is like a river. It makes its own path through numerous obstacles and reach its destination. Its water current calmly cuts through whatever comes along its path.

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What we must learn from serene river?

If we can even able to adapt these two below listed points then without any doubt we will surely achieve great results in our lives.

1. We must always be Calm and Polite in every situations. Especially when everything goes wrong in our lives.

2. We must never give up and make our own path to achieve greater results and success.

Similarly, we should work hard towards our goal and never get disappointed from Critics,Barriers and Obstacles. We must always be Patient and Polite to people we meet. It builds our personality, strengthens us internally and tests our temperament.

Two biggest known personalities are “Abraham Lincoln” and “Mahatma Gandhi”. They have achieved greatness with their ‘Politeness’ and ‘Never-Quit’ outstanding qualities.

Even we should never stop our process of achieving our goals nor we go off track. These actually test us, how desperate and strong are we to reach our goals. It teaches us to be patient and makes us mentally tough.

I am not born with golden spoon but my confidence and perseverance will make my spoon golden.

Achieve your goal no matter how many times we fail. Make failures our ladder and climb to the success.

Never ever give up. And make your spoon golden.

Keep Smiling.. 🙂

Thanks,
Aviral