Lessons I learned in 2013

Like earlier years of my life, this year too has been a great learning year. I learned a lot especially on Investing Money and Time (Now have become my favorites).

The main Goal of 2014 year is again learning big secrets of Investing Money, building Network and read lots and lots of books on Investment Strategies and Self-Development. Fingers crossed.

lessons-learnedHere are the listed lessons which I learned in this wonderful year of mine. 🙂

  1. Always have patience.
  2. Don’t fool yourself. If you complete your goal, celebrate and if you fail, find a way to criticise yourself.
  3. Always take responsibility.
  4. Surround yourself with people who makes you Smile, Happy and are Positive.
  5. Don’t join easy crowd. Go where the pressure to perform is high.
  6. Never waste your time. Utilize your time in self-development.
  7. Always Trust your fellows. Never at any cost mistrust your loved ones.
  8. Learned lots of new lessons and secrets on Investment Strategies. (This is also my 2014 Goal.)
  9. Don’t spend Money and Time which has depreciating values.
  10. Your life changes when you change.
  11. It doesn’t depend how much time you work for, what truly matters is the value you are putting in time of working.
  12. You always reap, what you sow. There is no shortcut for success and learning.
  13. Always have a short-term and long-term visions for your Personal developments, Financial planning and most importantly your Life.
  14. Always have courage. What scares you the most, do that first.
  15. Take Risks.
  16. When you face any problems or an obstacle, spend more time and effort on solution rather than the problem.
  17. Always test your Brain, Heart and Emotions in tough times.
  18. Keep emotions in check.
  19. Pen down (or keep records) the new learnings in your diary.
  20. Gain knowledge and take Actions accordingly.
  21. When you don’t feel like doing any productive work like reading or working for your goals, take an off. Don’t work or read with absent-minded.

And finally the best one which I learned last month: I know nothing (Don’t assume a single second that you have become the Smartest person), so will keep learning till I die.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

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Shaping your Attitude – Jeff Botch

Everyone of us can learn from our seniors, mentors and those we admire.  Every day is an opportunity to learn.  One of my inspirations, whom I admire and respect is Mr. Jeff Botch from San Diego, USA. He is a talented writer, personal development coach and a sales professional.

Jeff BotchIt is with great pleasure that I share with you today, the wonderful prolific writer who invented The ASAP Model along with hundreds of motivational articles and published his book, “BIG FEATS” on children’s development.

Mr. Botch says that the determining factor in how your days, weeks, months and years will ultimately play out is directly related to your attitude.  If you choose not to shape your attitude than what you are ultimately doing is giving other people and situations the ability to determine the outcomes in your life.

Below are 3 action steps he offers that you can use to take control of your attitude.

1. Affirm “Today is going to be MY day,” when you wake up in the morning.

today is my dayIf you are not someone who has bought into affirmations yet than you are going to need to change your thinking. Affirmations are simply a way to program the types of outcomes you desire into your sub-conscience mind. The simplest way to explain the power of affirmations is using the example of that 1st song you hear in the morning. If you wake up to a clock radio and hear some corny song you’ll likely be humming it all day long. By affirming the same positive thought into your mind from the moment you wake up you’ll surely be replaying it throughout your day and ultimately giving your sub-conscience mind the ability to manifest the result.

2. Smile at everyone!

be_nice_and_smile_to_everyoneTake this as a challenge and try to make good on it for an entire day. Everyone that you make eye contact with should receive a smile from you. This simple change from not smiling to smiling at everyone will not only brighten up the other person’s day but it’ll change the way your day unfolds.

3. Let drivers merge in front of you when you have the opportunity. You should have a couple opportunities every trip you take. By focusing on this simple act, you’ll start to change your mind frame from that of “What’s in it for me?” to “How may I serve?” When you start to think of the other person and honestly care about their needs you’ll start attracting the things you want into your life.

truthfulAccording to Mr. Botch, these are 3 simple action steps that will help you to begin shaping your attitude and he offers them as a challenge to you.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

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Forwarded and Edited by Mr. Jeff Botch