Don’t Telecast your Past

One beautiful morning, I along with my two friends, went to our society garden for a walk. It was a beautiful morning with sun smiling above us, birds were singing the morning rhyme, and dank green grasses beneath welcomed us. We could feel the chilly breeze on our face. It was serene and tranquil dawn in which we felt like three butterflies enjoying the essence of flowers.

As we broke into conversation, one of my friend started blaming his luck, his life, his society, his family and his past. He started throwing negative vibrations and soon we could see his outburst.

boomIt was a burst of grunge in the garden of flowers like a jet of negativity in the ocean of positivity.

Believe me, we left that place within fifteen minutes. My day came to an end before even it had started.

Before you read further, let me ask you couple of questions.

“Do you carry your past together?”

“Do you (sometime) remember those horrifying moments which drain your energy out of your soul?”

If you nod affirmatively to the above asked questions then you are drifting a bit from your positive path and if not rectified soon, it will going to take your life downwards sooner or later.

We all are human beings and we take our previous memories together. It’s a human tendency. The question isn’t about remembering mistakes or criticisms which we did or received in our earlier lives, but the question is taking those hair-raising time along with our lives and more importantly allowing those memories to ruin our present and future. These are like slow poison which kill you gently.

It’s like entering in a dark tunnel where you see nothing. Complete darkness. Complete black out. No light, still we move further with hope and faith on our little baby steps. Time may be daunting but with brave heart we move towards the search of light, towards a ray of hope. We come across some difficulties, we stumble in between still we never stop. We keep moving in search of that hopeful torchlight.

Finally, when we come out of the dark tunnel, we embrace the light. We dismantle the mask of fearful and dress the shield of relaxing attitude and wear smile.

This tunnel journey do teach us many things. It makes us internally strong and teaches us about patience and courageousness.

What will you carry along with you: A negative memory (darkness and stumbles) or a positive one (learning experiences) from this tunnel journey?

You said right, obviously a positive ones and will make sure that we do not repeat the mistakes which we did.

What will happen if we constantly carry those weirdo negatives and indulge ourselves in scary and spine-chilling thoughts?

I have seen many people across my circle, who keep talking about their failures, past negative experiences, illnesses etc. and once you listen to these people, you start feeling a negative vibes in the positive atmosphere like fishy smell in the garden of roses.

Its like carrying burdens on your own shoulders.

Result: They get trapped in the negative web and overthrow their own life. And their family’s life.

We must learn from our past but we should never carry them on our shoulders all the time. Covert those time into learning lessons and change your day, your life.

“Forgetting bad time leads to good and beautiful life.”

Keep Smiling… 🙂

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Emotions lead to Happiness

Emotions. Word is simple, yet heavy. Very heavy.

Emotions. Just eight letters word, yet deep. Very deep. You cannot even measure the depth of this word. It can drown you as well your whole life. It has buried millions of lives.

You must have heard, ‘Emotional Outburst’, ‘Emotional Attack’. You must have used word ‘Emotion’ numerous times in your life span. Oh! Not only used, you must have felt as well.

We often use or tell our friends, ‘Hey! You are getting too emotional.’ Or ‘Stop being emotional.’ Or ‘Control your emotions man.’

I would say this word is being used millions of times daily. Isn’t it?

Unfortunately, used in NEGATIVE FASHION.

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Yes. You read correctly. Most of the time we use this word in negative scenarios.

Why?

Why we always link such beautiful word with negativity, pessimist and unfavorable conditions?

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Emotions is one of the beautiful words I have ever come across. Personally, I love this word and have deep respect. Unfortunately, we lose control and overuse and over show our emotions which lead us to in tragic incidences.

Have you ever done horse riding? We enjoy the horse riding, don’t we?

Now just imagine, you are sitting on a horse and you are solely handling him. Enjoying the horse riding on a sandy beach. Horse is moving calmly. You are enjoying in the twilight. Now you increase the speed of the horse and it starts jogging. Amazing experience. You want more pace and thrill. You further increase the speed and now horse is running fast. Very fast. Suddenly, you feel timorous as your enjoyment is taken shape of timorousness. Your smiling lips and excited eyes has become fallen lips and scared eyes.

Your excitement led to over excitement and which spoiled your moment.

The same goes with our emotions. Emotions if not handled properly lead to emotional burst. Effects on relationships heavily. Ruin and doom our life.

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Source: quotesvalley.comEmotional outburst is a road to isolation.

Now, the question arising in your mind is, how to handle our emotions?

Answer is very simple and straight.

If emotional outburst makes you disconsolate, simply go in a calm desolate place under the open sky. Most importantly, desolate yourself. Put the ear plugs on and listen calm, smooth music. Take a deeeeeep breath and releeeaaase.

Repeat for three times and feel relax.

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I strongly believe, Emotion is a beautiful word and precious feeling and it has to be preserved for our closed ones whom we love, we respect and we care. Not for those who disheartened us and disrespect our feelings. Unfortunately we do the opposite.

Can you even think of throwing fresh fragrant roses under the fire? Just imagine the combination of bitter gourd dipped in chocolate flavored ice-cream. Distasteful and unpleasant combination, isn’t it?

Unhappiness never goes with Emotions. Rather emotions go along love. Emotions should be felt from deep loving eyes and lovable heart which reflects on your smiling lips.

Finally, feel the emotions and make your life enthralling and lovable.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Leave Mark like a Pencil

The Pencil maker took the pencil aside, just before putting him into the box.

“There are five things you need to know.” pencil maker said.

One: You will be able to do many great things, but only if you allow yourself to be held in someone’s hand.

Two: You will experience a painful sharpening from time to time, but you will need it to become a better pencil.

Three: You will be able to correct any mistakes you might make.leave mark

Four: The most important part of you will always be what’s inside.

Five: On every surface you are used on, you must leave your mark. No matter what the condition, you must continue to write.

Wow! Great learning life experiences from a pencil, isn’t it?

We can learn a lot from this pencil and make our life inspirational.

Now replacing the place of the pencil with you.

Always remember them and never forget, and you will become the best person you can be.

One: You will be able to do many great things, but only if you allow yourself to be. And allow other human beings to access you for the many gifts you possess.

Two: You will experience a painful sharpening from time to time, by going through various problems in life, but you will need it to become a stronger and smarter person.

Three: You will be able to correct any mistakes you might make. And you can erase your past which injects negativity.

Four: The most important part of you will always be what’s on the inside. Believe me, your attitude makes the difference.

Five:  On every surface you walk through, you must leave your mark. No matter what the situation is, you must continue to do your duties.

dont be discouragedNever allow yourself to get discouraged and think that your life is insignificant and cannot make a change.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Thanks,

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