When we were kids, we enjoyed every moments of our life. When we grew older and entered in teen’s worlds, we got to know a bit about life like a newly born bird comes out of nest and face the dirty world. We started feeling minute level of pressures especially in exams or our so-called-love-life as we indulged ourselves in our love though it was just an infatuation.
As soon as we enter in the world of professionals and corporate we got the real taste of life. When we got married and have family we got to know the word ‘Responsibility’.
Life is not a linear. It’s like stock market graph chart. Rise and falls, ups and downs. Twists and turns.
When we wake up in the morning we feel fresh and morning dew and fragrance make us rejuvenated. As the day proceed and things keep coming on us, our mood starts fluctuating. Cause of fluctuation may be office work, relationships, family or any external forces. Whatever the reason be, it spontaneously changes our mood and we feel disheartened or happy.
When we talk this at macro level, we call it Life.
Life is like a roller coaster ride. It gives you bumps at every interval.
Rather than taking it as a frightening experience, we must take it as a learning experience. We must enjoy the ride like we enjoy a roller coaster ride.
I love it when I feel pressure. I love it when I pass through bad phase. I love it when some irrelevant weeds crop up in my life.
Because these, teach me lessons. I learn a lot, examine others and try to find out how to react on these circumstances and trust me this is extremely helpful for our future when we may (obviously will) face bigger issues than today. At that time, we can link to those issues with we faced earlier in life which gives us hint for the optimum solution. It gives us energy to handle the pressure. It teaches us to stay calm in these tougher situations and our maturity level increases.
I personally, have seen many matured people who react weirdly when they face tough situations. They start blaming, shouting and sometimes start badmouthing. You must have seen big politicians, celebrities reacting to media. You guessed right, who enjoys the game and who gets trapped, we all know.
I won’t say, they lose their temper after getting bombarded with these bad happenings, rather I would say they get trapped by these situations. Guess what, we keep repeating the mistakes going forward and never learn.
In these tough situations of life or controversies we must never:
- Lose temper
- Get panic
- Get frightened
- Speak abruptly and
Just stay calm and be silence for the time being. Take a deep breath, hold it, count 10 and release slowly. Do it for three times and you will get a solution and feel relaxed.
Go to a calm serene place and think twice, thrice before uttering a single word because harsh words can ruin someone’s life and yours for sure.
These are just temporary and will leave but if not handled properly and smartly will give you a deep impact on your life.
“Thank you for life, and all the little ups and downs that make it worth living.”
– Travis Barker
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