Smile is a Gift

🙂 Smile convert enemy into friends.
🙂 Smile increases your face value.
🙂 Smile takes you to Success.
🙂 Smile get rid of hatred and agony.
🙂 Smile reduces Stress.:-) Smile walks on the track of happiness.
🙂 Smile resembles Forgiveness.:-) Smile is contiguous.
🙂 Smile on your face is your real beauty.
🙂 Smile is priceless.
🙂 Smile clears the negative atmosphere.
🙂 Smile injects love in a dead people.
🙂 Smile answers all your problems.

“The more you spread Smile, the more happiness you earn.”

So,

Keep-Smiling-Always

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Expect Less, Respect Dress

Yesterday I along with my friend were discussing about Relationships and Expectations from our closed ones. The topic of discussion was how expectations directly or indirectly ruin the best of the relations. We shared our experiences and knowledge with each other and finally concluded that, in relationship were love binds us, expectation also plays its own role. It’s like in garden of grass, weeds do grow in small patches and you cannot get rid of them at all.

Later on she asked me, ‘Aviral can you please help me in writing a caption for my WhatsApp status?

Thought for a second and wrote – “Expect Less, Respect Dress

As soon as she read the caption she burst into laughter and laughingly asked me, ‘What does this mean as it sounds so weird?

I replied, ‘Actually sounds a bit funny but let me explain. We should expect less from our friends and family, do you agree?

She responded affirmatively.

I continued, ‘When we say that we should have less expectations from our loved ones then does this make sense to have high expectations from acquaintances or impossible people who made our lives difficult.

dont expectYou guessed right, we should never expect from impossible people. Like you, she replied, ‘We should never expect from these people.

Expectations are just like weeds, they are redundant and whatever effort you put in to get rid of them they still grow and grow again and again. Similarly, we tell ourselves that now we will stop expecting from our closed ones but by end of the day knowingly or unknowingly we expect from them.

Don’t we? 🙂

Yes we do. Because we love them. Because our heart don’t restrict us to do this. Sometime we also expect from acquaints or impossible people. Obviously our rate of expectations with such people is less than as compared to our closed ones. But we do a fraction of bit. Because they are also our part of life.

These people hurt us. Make our lives miserable. Disrespect us. Annoy us. Ignore us. And they can go to any extent to make us unhappy.

Now the question here is, Should we disrespect them in return?

I am sorry to say this, the answer is “No”.

We should never disrespect anyone in our life no matter how they behave with us. Because the more you respect people, back in their heart they start respecting you. Obviously it may take time as it depends on person to person but I can bet you they will respect you in return. If not in front of you but they will for sure at your back.

They will dress you of Respect. People will start respecting you. They start loving and liking you even if they do not show in your presence but believe me a seed of respect will surely plant in somewhere in their heart.

On the other hand, disrespecting people in return will surely be a win situation for them and not for you because by badmouthing you will be the sufferer not them as they want you to react.

And in the worst case, we must ignore these peculiar spooks and loony situations as ignoring is one of the best solutions.

Your mind is made for better ideas and heart is for loving people not for hatred and ego. And most importantly we must never lose our self-respect.

Keep Smiling… 🙂

Lighten up your Tunnel – Rowena Marshall

This wonderful day I would like to introduce you one of the beautiful, passionate lady from R - EditSouth Africa. Rowena Marshall.

We met on a group via LinkedIn and became great friends. Got inspired by her life’s lessons. The way she handled her life all alone is truly inspiring. She’s seen ups and downs but never lost courage and kept fighting. Truly inspirational.

Yesterday while talking to her, I asked her if she can write something for my blog.

She says, “When Aviral asked me if I would write something for his blog, I honestly thought he had lost his mind.  What could a 44-year-old, manic-depressive, lonely, single mother have to say that anyone else would want to hear?  I spent a good few minutes thinking about it and realized that no matter who we are, where we come from, what we do, we all have something to share and offer.

She pen downs nicely with beautiful words….

“Life is a wealth of experiences and in sharing them, we can enrich each other’s lives.”

There is a saying “Laugh, and the world laughs with you.  Cry, and you cry alone”.

I have had occasion to experience this saying first hand, and I recently discovered that friends can be found in the strangest places.

Being something of a loner makes going through tough times just a little harder, especially since my main confidant, my Mom, passed away suddenly just two years ago.

A short while ago, I hit a major relationship wobbly and was teetering dangerously on the edge of my sanity and was definitely ready to plunge, head first, into the deep abyss of depression.

rashad_evansAfter opening a link, forwarded by a friend, I discovered the immense benefits of the internet.  Here I found a wealth of multiple motivational sites; self-help blogs; and support groups, where hundreds of faceless, and often nameless people fight their own demons; offer their support, and share their experiences with the rest of us troubled minions… It was here, through sharing, reading, and listening, I gradually found my sanity again, and started my journey towards becoming whole.

We are never really alone.  We may feel like our troubles are insurmountable and that there is no end in sight, and that all we can do is to crumple to the floor, curl up, cry, and wallow in the deep depths of self-pity and anger, and finally just give up the fight.

if-you-ever-dare-to-fight-hatredWAIT!  DON’T!!  WE DON’T NEED TO DO THAT ANYMORE!!!

There IS a way…

There IS light at the end of that long dark tunnel….

The world is FULL of amazing people.  People who want to reach out and touch the souls of total strangers, and bring living and loving back into their lives.

I found this online… and it has changed my life forever.

I learnt the about the simple act of repeating basic affirmations: giving myself permission to love who I am; to be proud of myself; to acknowledge that I am worth more than I give myself credit for.  So many affirmations to feed the soul… the list is just endless.  Yes, I felt stupid doing them at first, but once I started experiencing that positive change, deep inside, feeling stupid suddenly didn’t seem like such a big deal anymore.

imagesThrough this marvelous invention called the internet, I found and made so many wonderful, beautiful friends.

Friends to cry with.

Friends to laugh with.

Friends to share with.

Friends to lean on.

Friends, who are there for me, anytime, day or night.

Friends, who despite having never met me face to face, ask daily about my wellbeing.

Friends, who have nothing to gain or lose, by sharing their stories and their advice…

Friends who care.

I know that I will NEVER have to cry alone, ever again.  And my laughter, well, that flows easily and more often now… because, through this modern marvel, I have found ME.  I have come in contact with a wealth of amazing people, from all over the world, who have the capacity to love, share, help, and care about total strangers.

Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life….

Keep Smiling… 🙂

12 Things Happy People do Differently

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12 things happy people do

Clear the Ego and see the World

Would you prefer to experience a dusty storm or a foggy dawn?

The answer is simple. No one would choose a dusty storm, so how can we surround ourselves with egotistical people. The ego and its impact are as large as a nuclear explosion. It explodes internally and vandalizes our soul and smashes our heart.

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Egotistical people have trouble in their careers and personal lives. They are close minded and their careers can often be compared to a parabola, it crumbles after a short period.

Here are a few of the most noticeable features of egotistical people:

  • They are jealous of other people’s success.
  • They can’t stand to see other people happy.
  • They are consumed with their own success and will go to great lengths to achieve it.
  • They take joy in harming or destroying the professional lives of others.
  • They are not team players.
  • They lack leadership skills.
  • They always try to show their superiority.
  • They always portray themselves as smarter than others.
  • They are selfish.
  • They only care for themselves.

Ego is like a cancer and pain will surely come from it.  Always avoid these people as their negativity can actually make you mentally unconscious. They will suck all your energy and make you feel dumb.

The ego is a fascinating monster.

Alanis Morissette

Humans are meant to change the world and we must change our society by spreading love and happiness rather than being egotistical and spreading hatred.

“The more you give, the more you get.”

So always have foresight and help others without being selfish.  Uproot your ego from your heart and soul and be a helping hand to society.

If society is beautiful then so you are.

Thanks,

Aviral

Edited and forwarded by Mr. Jeff Botch